A conundrum of fittitute now from Josh from Washington DC:
Is it better for your ex’s new boy/girlfriend to be:
Fitter than you or
Less fit than you?
If they’re fitter than you, it’s depressing because they’ve moved up in the world. If they’re less fit than you, it suggests that they have low standards, which in turn reflects badly on your own fitness.
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All the single ladies, all the single ladies – put your hands UP woah-oh-oh if you think you might like to go on a date with Tom, who writes:
During one inebriated night, I foolishly joined a dating agency which required a fairly reasonable, though still a little hefty, 6-month subscription fee.
I am not in any sort of situation, emotionally or practically, to be in a relationship, casual or otherwise, and have to put this random act down to drunken tomfoolery.
I currently haven’t got a steady job, am pretty much broke, need to lose two stone, live with my mum and I am 35.
I do plan on sorting myself out soonish, but don’t really want another girlfriend yet and given my situation and immature tendencies don’t think that any lady in her right mind would be interested. However, I also don’t want to waste the money I have spent signing up to this stupid dating site.
So answer me this – should I lie like a (storm) trooper on my character profile to see if I can get a nibble and hopefully, by the time it comes to meet up with them, some of the lies would be true? Or should I concentrate on sorting my life out before getting back out there on the desperate dater’s scene (and make sure my credit card, laptop and whiskey are never in the same room again)?
It’s possible that a little lady-fun would give you the impetus to start sorting out your situation, Tom. But readers, what do you think? Go to the comments to sort out Tom’s live – its romantic side, of course, but also professional, domestic and pastoral. And don’t mince your words, because he needs the fillip.
I’ve been waiting to blog about it because I was waiting for the right photos. These beauties were taken by Rick, Helen’s brother, and only emailed to me today. He was lugging around a camera the size of a labrador at the wedding, so I’d suspected they would be worth waiting for.
Aw.
It was a really charming event, perhaps the loveliest wedding I’ve ever been to, and VERY Helen and Martin. They were super-relaxed – greeting guests as we arrived at the service, rather than making a grand entrance, and cracking jokes throughout – and the grub was a slap-up home-made afternoon tea, washed down with a LOT of pink champagne (they’re not drinkers). Oh, and a fish and chip van at 11pm. And a cheeseboard. Awesome.
The ceremony was al fresco, in a beautiful park in Kent (alongside a craft fair and fete – and even a meet-and-greet with celebrity porkchop PEPPA PIG!), but luckily the rain held back for the ceremony, despite hilarious and dramatic thunderclaps as the happy couple made their way down the aisle. Well, if you are going to have a resolutely secular wedding at Easter time, God will make His feelings known…
Back at the Zaltzman family pile, there were cracking tributes by various folks including friends-of-the-podcast Alex Thomas and Andy Zaltzman, but, it must be said, Helen and Martin’s dads pulled off the funniest speeches of the night.
Helen and Martin are now on honeymoon somewhere in the States, no doubt listening to discordantly intellectual audiobooks as they speed down the highway, stopping frequently to photograph funny road signs, or further snapshots of Martin sucking yet another ice lolly that looks a bit like a penis. They claim not to yet know what their new surname will be, but for me – as for all true AMT! fans – they will be Forever Zaltzwick.
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Here’s an unusual question from Ben from Geelong:
How do I stop my son from saying “fork”?
I don’t want to slow his development. He is 18 months old and this is one of his first words,and when he says it, it sounds like “FUCK”. And he says it A LOT!!!!! In shopping centres, down the street, in the park…………..I’m getting strange and disapproving looks. Any ideas?
Aside from stuffing a sock into his mouth to silence him (but not curb the disapproving looks from passers-by)? No! I have no idea how to make a child do anything. Their dominion mystifies and intimidates me in equal measure.
If you are less pathetic than I in the field of child discipline and language-cleaning, please go to the comments and help Ben silence that little non-pottymouth.
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We’ve got weddings on the brain this week, so let’s have a look at this question from Mark from St Neots:
On the anti-clockwise M25 just before you get to the M1 (Junction 21) there is a bridge where someone has painted onto it:
“Louise. I love you. Marry me. Bob”
Did Louise say yes, and is this a romantic way to propose or not?
ATTENTION TEAM AMT! Answer us these*:
Is one of you Louise?
Is Bob among your number?
Or do you know Bob and/or Louise?
If the answer to any of the above questions is ‘yes’, tell us: are Louise’n’Bob married? To each other? Happily? Or has Louise never forgiven him for proposing on a slab of concrete?
And do graffiti and the M25 say romance?
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Josh from Yorkshire seems to have found himself in an early Neil LaBute film, or one of those Shakespeare plays without any of the unfunny comedy scenes in it. Read the rest of this entry »
Remember AMT175? Nor do we! But fortunately Nick from Tadley does:
Helen questioned how you would start learning parkour. Olly suggested starting on small walls or some other thing, which is partly true. However, recently, there are actual sessions in gyms which dedicate themselves to this. How else would people learn how to kick the moon or corkscrew? Also, it’s great fun just chucking yourself from a high platform into a foam pit and landing like some kind of ninja!
Excellent! If Olly ever feels like dislocating his other shoulder, we’ll sign him up.
Our most recent podcast also provoked Cat from London to write in:
You asked whether you should tell someone if their fly was undone. I was on the tube once, getting off at Kings Cross, and for ages I agonised over this question: to my side I could see right into a lady’s top (not that I wanted to, I am a straight female).
When I finally decided that she probably would appreciate the sisterhood of telling her about it, I said, “Excuse me, your…” only to realise her earphones were in and I had to repeat myself (without embarrassing her in front of the man near us).
So I just gestured to my own bust area with a panicked look on my face, and pointed at her button. Luckily she smiled and laughed in embarrassment and did it up, and that was that. Job well done.
A crisis averted – with mime! If only they were all so easily solved.
That’s right – the time has come for us to shout ‘Wooooo!’, whip our tops off, and throw up all over a beach resort in Mexico while Joe Francis captures our shame on video. Answer Me This! is off on its hols for a few weeks, but before we go, here’s Episode 175:
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Furthermore! Olly is like a smack-head, but for Percy Pigs; Helen shuns a potential money-making scheme; and Martin the Sound Man provides the key to safe toaster cookery. This week’s Bit of Crap on the App (a worthy addition to your iPhone or Android) is the true question of Lil Wayne: what possessed him to go for this?
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There will be bits and pieces popping up on this site during the break, but we’ll see you back here bright and early on 26th May for AMT176. Until then, behave yourselves.
All is not harmonious for Luke from Fife at present:
I am heavily involved in music activities, and this is where I met my boyfriend of 8 months.
We ended about a month ago, and 3 days after breaking up he started dating a girl from these music activities.
I asked him to leave me alone, but he continues to contact me and message me through any form he can. So, answer me this: how do I deal with this rage?
We thought music was supposed to soothe most existential angst, but in this case it obviously isn’t; so, readers, tell Luke in the comments how to transform his fury into nonchalance.
The bigger question, we think, is why Luke’s ex is the one obsessively contacting him. Block him, Luke!
We know that a lot of you use the pumping beats of AMT to keep you entertained whilst running (that counts as us doing exercise too, right?), so would like to say a very big “Good luck!” to all of you listeners who are running the London Marathon this Sunday. But we reserve the biggest amount of “Good luck!” for Sam from Cambridgeshire:
I am running the London Marathon. However, because I am a little strange, I have decided that 26.2 miles just isn’t enough, and have decided to run the 86 miles back home again to St. Ives, Cambridgeshire, straight afterwards.
This foolhardiness is all in the name of charity, as I am raising money for the Epilepsy Society, aiming to raise over £2,000.
We can’t deny that this feat is both very charitable and very foolhardy. Accordingly, we would like you to answer us these in the comments: firstly, have you ever done anything more foolhardy than this in the name of charity; and secondly, have you ever completed an impressive physical feat and followed it with an even more impressive physical feat as a chaser?
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