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Girls are sooooooooo confusing, as poor Harry in Luton has lately discovered:
Valentine’s Day seems to have become a day where people who are already in relationships give each other stuff and walk around holding hands and being generally lovey-dovey, but this year I decided to use Valentine’s Day for its original purpose.
Commemorating a martyr who was beheaded for his Christian beliefs? Very retro, Harry.
I decided to give a Valentine’s card to the girl who I’d fancied for a while, and duly bought it and posted it to her house. Having delivered my card, I bought myself a lovely doughnut – with hundreds and thousands, of course – and sat in the park, fairly certain that I was going to get some form of date from this whole arrangement.
Later on that day I received a message from the girl saying how grateful she was for the card, but that we might just be “really good friends”. She also put a load of kisses at the end of the message, and then sent me another message saying, “See you at school, unless you want to meet up?” with a bunch more kisses.
It’s at this point that I become confused…
Answer me this: Does this girl actually want to meet up with me? And if she does, then would it be a date?
Ooof. She’s either undecided, playing hard to get, or deliberately toying with you with no intention to follow through with Romance. Readers, which do you think it is? In the comments, please guide this poor boy.
Answer Me This! Podcast 
February 15, 2012 at 8:00 pm |
I agree with Lorelei and Greg – she’s not interested in romance but is trying to let the guy down gently by offering friendship, but in a way that’s worse than a straightforward “No thank you” as it raises false hope. Best to move on, alas….
February 15, 2012 at 6:48 pm |
I agree. She’s not interested, but feels guilty and so is offering to hang out as a consolation. But really, that non-date will just be massively awkward at this point…
February 15, 2012 at 1:30 pm |
Little to no chance she is interested.
Although I would plumb for non-deliberately toying with him.