Dear John

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Apply yourselves, please, to this little pickle on behalf of Rukaiya from Nigeria:

Please answer me this:
What’s the best way to tell a guy you’re not interested in a relationship without sabotaging the friendship???

One simple method is to start seeing someone else and parading him in front of poor old Muggins as if unaware of the latter’s interest, although we admit it’s not a sensitive manoeuvre. Readers, any other ideas? Head to the comments to tell Rukaiya how to break a foolish heart!

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4 Responses to “Dear John”

  1. Matt's avatar Matt Says:

    that was meant to read “sleep with HIM immediately afterwards”

    you sleeping with one of your friends immediately afterwards will only inflame the situation….unless you let him watch maybe!

  2. Matt's avatar Matt Says:

    Tell him straight and then find one of your most attractive friends (with dubious morals) to sleep with immediately afterwards. Trust me, he’ll forgive you.

    If you get various friends to sleep with him regularly studies show it can actually strengthen a friendship.

  3. Alex off of Queensferry's avatar Alex off of Queensferry Says:

    “I’m really into girls right now”?

  4. Georgie from Hackney's avatar Georgie from Hackney Says:

    I’m not sure it can be done. The relationship will inevitably change. For the worse or the better depends on whether this guy is actually a good friend or not – try getting him really really drunk and being COMPLETELY honest about it. If he’s worth it, he’ll still be a friend. If he’s a jerk, he’ll do the whole “I so never fancied you to begin with – HAH!” thing. Not that it’s ever happened to me. *Sob*

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