Bobby from Sheffield has a problem in the bedroom:
What can I do to make my woman initiate sex? We’ve been going out for 4 years and not once has she made the first move unprompted.
I’ve tried waiting for a couple of weeks but I caved in, asking her about it but she says she’s scared to get it wrong.
From what I gather it’s her insecurity (I am considerably more athletic than she) and sheltered upbringing (she was a daddy’s little princess) that prevents her from taking the lead. She’s always on bottom yet it would be nicer to feel desired once in a while.
Apparently this is a common problem with guys I’ve spoken to.
Even though we’re all supposed to be sexual stormtroopers in the wake of SATC and whatnot, it is indeed a common problem, and Team AMT members will have undoubtedly encountered it; so I appeal to them to find their inner Dan Savage, then go to the comments to offer sensible and sensitive advice for Bobby and his unconfident lady.
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