Answer Me This! Podcast

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Our next correspondent, Jack, appears to be dickmatised:

I have a moral quandary. I met a boy last year, and we had a series of hook-ups (not really dating) until he came clean and told me he had a boyfriend. At that point I ended it.

What Do I Do?! Is it his problem, given he is a serial cheater, or should I be feeling guilty?????

Well, the moral imperative is his, as he has obligations to the boyfriend whilst you do not. However, he’s evidently not particularly attentive towards moral imperatives; whereas you ended the not-relationship once before because he had a boyfriend. What is different this time round?

The more important question is why are you bothering with this man anyway? Even if ‘chronic infidel’ is what you look for in a guy, he shouldn’t be causing your conscience to suffer pangs. Find somebody else to hook up with, because we’ve seen what happens to the Other Man in Unfaithful, and it doesn’t look appealing.

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